just another design.dont quite know if the name in the heart thing works for a lower back tattoo. Just to re-word what i said,i don't intend to get this tattooed on myself.it is a design for someone else.
I DO NOT think you should get it, since you are not a girl. I also do not think girls should get it, cuz the heart, flower, or butterfly in tribal is the most common tattoo ever.
although im not a big fan of tats for on the lower back i think this is cute. I say put your first born childs name in it or even just a word that means something special to you. Just don't put a boyfriend's name in the heart.